You can go through life trying to “fix” what you’re not good at or you can expand on the things that you excel in. Which sounds better to you?
This past weekend I went to a leadership retreat and I was lucky enough to get into a strengths finder session. There were limited spots and I ended up on a waiting list, but the morning before there was a book in my mailbox: Strengths Finder 2.0.
There were instructions along with the book that said to take an online personality assessment before going to the session. A half hour and over one hundred questions later I was presented these 5 strengths:
1. Positivity
2. Empathy
3. Woo (Which I learned stands for “winning others over.” Isn’t that neat?”)
4. Communication
5. Maximizer, meaning I like to take things from good to great.
I haven’t had much time to dig into the book, but what I’ve read so far and what I learned at the session is wonderful. On the first page author Tom Rath states his reasoning for creating the strengths finder: “We were tired of living in a world that revolved around fixing our weaknesses… What’s more, we had discovered that people have several times more potential for growth when they invest energy in developing their strengths instead of correcting their weaknesses.”
The whole point is to focus on what you’re good at. Find out your strengths and choose a path in which you can exercise those strengths. What happens when work comes easier to you? Less stress and more success, which then leads to a happier you. Don’t fight who you are.
I recommended getting the book and taking the test. I personally can’t wait to read on and learn how to utilize my strengths.
“If human beings are perceived as potentials rather than problems, as possessing strengths instead of weaknesses, as unlimited rather that dull and unresponsive, then they thrive and grow to their capabilities.” – Barbara Bush
“Success is achieved by developing our strengths, not by eliminating our weaknesses.”- Marilyn vos Savant
“Hide not your talents. They for use were made. What’s a sundial in the shade?” – Benjamin Franklin